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Gagsy

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I hardly reply to PMs

Posted by Gagsy - December 17th, 2011

I'm sorry. I have like a dozen I've not responded to in the last week and I want people here to know that it isn't because I find myself above conversing back to you or something rude, I'm just terribly lazy and sometimes, most of the time I don't seem to have the energy to keep up with messages and I know how incredibly stupid that sounds. I intend to reply to my recent ones, especially those lovely people who sent me nice PMs after that "Send people a nice PM" topic.

Just please know I appreciate you bothering to talk to me at all.

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Ryanson 2011-12-18 02:42:23

I was just checking up on you. You seemed more down recently, and I wanted to see if I could lift your spirits at all.

Gagsy 2011-12-18 02:42:23 (Updated 2011-12-18 08:31:54)

I have been quite bad recently. I think it's the holidays, my near empty bank account, which means I am unable to go to Manchester, some family issues, worry about my dog who I regard as my best friend. It all got on top on me. I'm not over it, not until Christmas is over I imagine, and right now with my monthly ahem female thing, it likely doesn't help my mood either. I don't normally get bitchy during that time, I just can be very very emotional. And right now is no different. Even now as I type this my eyes are watering. I'm such a fucking pussy

I almost forgot to say that I am grateful to you for the PMs (especially the Harry Potter ones!). I know it doesn't seem it at times when I just blank stop replying, and you'd be better PMing other usrs for chats but thank you for caring.

Murray 2011-12-18 06:55:34

You're more loved than I am. :)

Gagsy 2011-12-18 06:55:34

If I am I don't deserve to be.

Ragnarokia 2011-12-18 07:55:21

No one ever PMs me, I need to change my sex so I get more stalkers.

Gagsy 2011-12-18 07:55:21

If some gay user doesn't want to stalk you then fool on him. I'd tap that ass if I could ;)

EmmDubya 2011-12-18 09:52:01

Just in response to the last comment, I used to find Rag hot back in 08. :3

Ryanson 2011-12-18 13:58:05

YOU STILL OWE ME A HARRY POTTER REPLY but I forgot what exactly I sent, so you're off the hook possibly.

BananasFoster 2011-12-18 15:45:42

I don't think this is really all that uncommon. You know, lately I've been getting pretty horrible mood swings randomly, and even though I'm well capable of communicating with people, it just feels like I don't have the energy in me to exert the effort.

Social things in general are 'effort' for me most of the time, because I've always been a reclusive introvert of sorts. In the past five years I've developed better skills and may almost appear very extroverted to some, but that still drains me, and I really do love my alone time.

I don't know if this is what it's like for you quite, but I think I understand to some degree at least what you mean, and I hope other people aren't bothered by you not responding to them. I imagine it's not because you don't care -- which perhaps that is how you feel others might think -- but like you said, when your mind has sorrowful cement in it, anything personable is very difficult. You are a kind person, and I'm sure people understand it's 'not them, but yourself'. It's okay to be that way, too. Your mental health comes first, being slightly extroverted in a sense, second. I hope you do feel better after the holidays, and that your stresses aren't so bad afterward.

Gagsy 2011-12-18 15:45:42

Thank you for that.

Gobblemeister 2011-12-19 16:17:55

^ What he said but like, a thousand times more sincere

BananasFoster 2011-12-20 23:30:57

@Gobblemeister^

:'(

D'aww, I try to be sincere. It's hard for me via text! I'm sometimes inept at this in person, though, so it may be my own handicap, haha.

Davidzx 2011-12-21 22:31:04

everyone gets lazy at times

Gagsy 2011-12-21 22:31:04

I love you David.

SouthAsian 2011-12-22 16:39:42

Gagsy your awesome anyways.

Jackho 2011-12-23 19:15:46

I hardly get PMs :(

I hardly reply to PMs

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